When one thing ends we often forget that allows another thing to begin. If something never ended, well I don't know how much we would really appreciate it. The ending of a thing is both hard and beautiful. The ending of a relationship - possibly very necessary, possibly very unwanted, but it happens. I've learned that the ending of every relationship allows the opportunity for something else. Both parties walk away learning from the experience. So much of life's 'endings' are affected by our attitude. They go as well or as bad as we want them to... or we let them. We all have things that we try to hold on to even after the time has passed.
There's a time for everything. And I've had a lot of endings lately. Well, I've had a lot of endings in my life too. I can't say I'm fully good with them but I've learned that they aren't the end of the world. :) Life goes on. The world keeps spinning. Life is difficult enough as it is. And we, as humans, make it so much more complicated that it has to be. We over think things, we hold on too tight, we push away too hard and we try to do too much on our own.
I am a very independent person. And I've gotten over the fact that I can't do everything by myself. Sometimes I do need help. Sometimes I do need company. And quite honestly, I enjoy people being in my life. I enjoy including people in my life. This weekend, I cooked a meal for two of the most important people to me. I didn't need to do it. I didn't have to do it. I wanted to. I wanted to include these two people into a certain part of my life. So I did, and everything was perfect. I couldn't have imagined a better beginning to the end of something.
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